Erik Mildes, MA, LMHC Licensed Counselor & Approved Supervisor
Booklist
Borderline Personality Disorder
Stop Walking on Eggshells: taking your life back when someone you
care about has borderline personality disorder—by Paul T.
Mason & Randi Kreger
The Stop Walking on Eggshells Workbook: practical strategies for
living with someone who has borderline personality disorder—by
Randi Kreger & James Paul Shirley
Forgiveness
Embodying Forgiveness: a theological analysis—by Gregory L. Jones
Anxiety
The Anxiety Workbook—by Edmund J. Bourne
Intercession
Rees Howells: Intercessor—by Norman Grubb
Leadership & Vocation
The Last Word On Power: executive re-invention for leaders who must
make the impossible happen—by Tracy Goss
Let Your Life Speak: listening for the voice of vocation—by
Parker Palmer
Difficult Conversations: how to discuss what matters most—by
Douglass Stone
Getting To Yes: negotiating agreement without giving in—by
Roger Fisher and William Ury of the Harvard Negotiation Project
The One Minute Manager: the quickest way to increase your own prosperity—by
Kenneth Blanchard
Marriage & Relationships
Passionate Marriage: keeping love & intimacy alive in committed
relationships—by David Schnarch
Bold Love—by Dan Allender
Intimate Allies: rediscovering God's design for marriage and becoming
soul mates for life—by Dan Allender
The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work: a practical Guide
from the country's foremost relationship expert—by John M.
Gottman
Resurrecting Sex: resolving sexual problems and rejuvenating your
relationship—by David Schnarch
For Men
Wild at Heart: discovering the secret of a man's soul—by John Eldredge
Narcissism
Why is it Always About You?: the seven deadly sins of narcissism—by Sandy Hotchkiss
Parenting
Parenting with Love and Logic: teaching children responsibility—by
Foster Cline & Jim Fay
How Children Raise Parents—by Dan Allender
Parenting Children with Reactive Attachment Disorder
Dandelion on my Pillow, Butcher Knife Beneath—by Nancy Thomas
When Love is Not Enough: a guide to parenting children with reactive
attachment disorder—by Nancy Thomas (Cassette Series)
Personal Growth
Controlling People: how to recognize, understand, and deal with
people who try to control you—by Patricia Evans
Difficult Conversations: how to discuss what matters most—by
Douglass Stone
Prayer
Prayer: Does It Make Any Difference?-by Phillip Yancey
Psychological Theory
Cracking Up—by Christopher Bollas
The Power of Counter-Transference—by Karen Maroda
The Drama of the Gifted Child: the search for the true self—by
Alice Miller
Subject Relations: unconscious experience and relational psychoanalysis—by
Naomi G. Rucker
The Theory and Practice of Group Psychotherapy—by Irvin D.
Yalom
The Gift of Therapy: an open letter to a new generation of therapists
and their patients—by Irvin D. Yalom
The Cry of the Soul: how our emotions reveal our deepest questions
about God—by Dan Allender
Recovery
The Healing Path—by Dan Allender
Telling Secrets—by Frederick Buechner
Addiction and Grace—by Gerad G. May, M.D.
Self Harm
Sacred Pain: hurting the body for the sake of the soul—by
Ariel Glucklich
Female Perversions: the temptations of Emma Bovary—by Louise
J. Kaplan
Skin Game: a memoir—by Caroline Kettlewell
Sexual Abuse
The Wounded Heart: hope for adult victims of childhood sexual abuse—by
Dan Allender
Naming the Shadows: a new approach to individual and group psychotherapy
for adult survivors of childhood incest—by Susan Roth
Sexual Addiction
Female Perversions-- Louise J. Kaplan
False Intimacy: understanding the struggle of sexual addiction—by
Harry W. Schaumburg
Substance Addiction
A Million Little Pieces#8212;by James Frey
Drinking; A Love Story#8212;by Caroline Knapp
Suffering
The Problem of Pain—by C.S. Lewis
God at War: the bible & spiritual conflict—by Gregory
Boyd
Satan and the Problem of Evil: constructing a trinitarian warfare
theodicy—by Gregory Boyd
The God Who Risks: a theology of providence—by John Sanders
Stumbling Toward Faith: my longing to heal from the evil that god
allowed—by Renee Altson
Theology & the Church
Paradise Restored: a biblical theology of dominion—by David
Chilton
Beyond Foundationalism: shaping theology in a postmodern context—by
Stanley J. Grenz
The Next Christendom: the coming of global christianity—by
Philip Jenkins
A New Kind of Christian: a tale of two friends on a spiritual journey—by
Brian McLaren
The Story We Find Ourselves In: further adventures of a new kind
of christian—by Brian McLaren
The Last Word and One After That#8212;by Brian McLaren Not the way
it's supposed to be: a breviary of sin—by Cornelius Plantinga
Other Impacting Reading
Three Steps on the Ladder of Writing—by Helene Cixous
Realities and Relationships: soundings in social construction—by
Kenneth J. Gergen
Their eyes were watching God—by Zora Neale Hurston
The Long Hard Road Out of Hell—by Marilyn Manson
My First White Friend: confessions on race, love, and forgiveness—by
Patricia Raybon
Love's Executioner—by Irvin D. Yalom
