Erik Mildes, MA, LMHC Licensed Counselor & Approved Supervisor


Borderline Personality Disorder

Stop Walking on Eggshells: taking your life back when someone you care about has borderline personality disorder—by Paul T. Mason & Randi Kreger
The Stop Walking on Eggshells Workbook: practical strategies for living with someone who has borderline personality disorder—by Randi Kreger & James Paul Shirley


Embodying Forgiveness: a theological analysis—by Gregory L. Jones


The Anxiety Workbook—by Edmund J. Bourne


Rees Howells: Intercessor—by Norman Grubb

Leadership & Vocation

The Last Word On Power: executive re-invention for leaders who must make the impossible happen—by Tracy Goss
Let Your Life Speak: listening for the voice of vocation—by Parker Palmer
Difficult Conversations: how to discuss what matters most—by Douglass Stone
Getting To Yes: negotiating agreement without giving in—by Roger Fisher and William Ury of the Harvard Negotiation Project
The One Minute Manager: the quickest way to increase your own prosperity—by Kenneth Blanchard

Marriage & Relationships

Passionate Marriage: keeping love & intimacy alive in committed relationships—by David Schnarch
Bold Love—by Dan Allender
Intimate Allies: rediscovering God's design for marriage and becoming soul mates for life—by Dan Allender
The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work: a practical Guide from the country's foremost relationship expert—by John M. Gottman
Resurrecting Sex: resolving sexual problems and rejuvenating your relationship—by David Schnarch

For Men

Wild at Heart: discovering the secret of a man's soul—by John Eldredge


Why is it Always About You?: the seven deadly sins of narcissism—by Sandy Hotchkiss


Parenting with Love and Logic: teaching children responsibility—by Foster Cline & Jim Fay
How Children Raise Parents—by Dan Allender

Parenting Children with Reactive Attachment Disorder

Dandelion on my Pillow, Butcher Knife Beneath—by Nancy Thomas
When Love is Not Enough: a guide to parenting children with reactive attachment disorder—by Nancy Thomas (Cassette Series)

Personal Growth

Controlling People: how to recognize, understand, and deal with people who try to control you—by Patricia Evans
Difficult Conversations: how to discuss what matters most—by Douglass Stone


Prayer: Does It Make Any Difference?-by Phillip Yancey

Psychological Theory

Cracking Up—by Christopher Bollas
The Power of Counter-Transference—by Karen Maroda
The Drama of the Gifted Child: the search for the true self—by Alice Miller
Subject Relations: unconscious experience and relational psychoanalysis—by Naomi G. Rucker
The Theory and Practice of Group Psychotherapy—by Irvin D. Yalom
The Gift of Therapy: an open letter to a new generation of therapists and their patients—by Irvin D. Yalom
The Cry of the Soul: how our emotions reveal our deepest questions about God—by Dan Allender


The Healing Path—by Dan Allender
Telling Secrets—by Frederick Buechner
Addiction and Grace—by Gerad G. May, M.D.

Self Harm

Sacred Pain: hurting the body for the sake of the soul—by Ariel Glucklich
Female Perversions: the temptations of Emma Bovary—by Louise J. Kaplan
Skin Game: a memoir—by Caroline Kettlewell

Sexual Abuse

The Wounded Heart: hope for adult victims of childhood sexual abuse—by Dan Allender
Naming the Shadows: a new approach to individual and group psychotherapy for adult survivors of childhood incest—by Susan Roth

Sexual Addiction

Female Perversions-- Louise J. Kaplan
False Intimacy: understanding the struggle of sexual addiction—by Harry W. Schaumburg

Substance Addiction

A Million Little Pieces#8212;by James Frey
Drinking; A Love Story#8212;by Caroline Knapp


The Problem of Pain—by C.S. Lewis
God at War: the bible & spiritual conflict—by Gregory Boyd
Satan and the Problem of Evil: constructing a trinitarian warfare theodicy—by Gregory Boyd
The God Who Risks: a theology of providence—by John Sanders
Stumbling Toward Faith: my longing to heal from the evil that god allowed—by Renee Altson

Theology & the Church

Paradise Restored: a biblical theology of dominion—by David Chilton
Beyond Foundationalism: shaping theology in a postmodern context—by Stanley J. Grenz
The Next Christendom: the coming of global christianity—by Philip Jenkins
A New Kind of Christian: a tale of two friends on a spiritual journey—by Brian McLaren
The Story We Find Ourselves In: further adventures of a new kind of christian—by Brian McLaren
The Last Word and One After That#8212;by Brian McLaren Not the way it's supposed to be: a breviary of sin—by Cornelius Plantinga

Other Impacting Reading

Three Steps on the Ladder of Writing—by Helene Cixous
Realities and Relationships: soundings in social construction—by Kenneth J. Gergen
Their eyes were watching God—by Zora Neale Hurston
The Long Hard Road Out of Hell—by Marilyn Manson
My First White Friend: confessions on race, love, and forgiveness—by Patricia Raybon
Love's Executioner—by Irvin D. Yalom

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